Questions About Domestic Violence

• I may be a victim of domestic violence. What is considered domestic violence in Washington state?

  Domestic violence is legally defined in Washington state as physical harm, bodily injury, assault, or the infliction of fear of imminent physical harm, bodily injury or assault, sexual assault, or stalking of one intimate partner or family member by another partner or family member.

  Contrary to public perception, domestic violence can include emotional abuse. Additionally, domestic violence is not gender specific and can be committed by either partner.

  A dysfunctional relationship may also be marred by the intentional social isolation, “gas lighting,” the use of children or loved ones as emotional leverage, or the malicious domination of finances, family resources, or healthcare.

  If you are in a dangerous situation, call 911 immediately.

• I am a victim of domestic violence. Can I seek protection for me and my loved ones during the divorce process?

  Yes. Domestic Violence Protection Orders (DVPO) are issued by the court to protect a petitioner and/or child, depending on the nature and circumstances of the facts involved in your case. Orders can restrain the abuser from certain actions, locations, or individuals, and will subject the defendant to arrest should the order be violated.

  Details on how this might affect your divorce will be based on a case by case basis. We strongly advise you seek experienced legal counsel to help guide your decision making when it comes to abusive situations.

• I am a victim of domestic violence and am in immediate danger. How do I seek protection as soon as possible?

  One can seek an immediate temporary order for protection should life or health be at serious risk in an abusive or dangerous situation.

  It can be obtained relatively quickly so long as a person has provided the court an adequate basis in writing to issue the order. However, such an order will typically last 14 days or less until a full hearing on whether to grant a full DVPO can be held.

  We strongly recommend you call our office for a consultation if you need to move quickly in an abusive situation.

  If you are in a dangerous situation, call 911 immediately.

• How long will a Domestic Violence Protection Order (DVPO) last?

  Usually a DVPO will last one year but can be extended depending on circumstances and need. If a DVPO is about to expire after running it course, one can petition to have it renewed if the safety concerns remain.

  The individual facts and circumstance are critical to determining your options to protect yourself. We strongly recommend calling us for a consultation, as our office has experience dealing with domestic violence and spousal abuse.

• What domestic violence resources are available?

  There are a variety of resources available for survivors and perpetrators of domestic violence. Please refer to our Resources page for further information.